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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! Just friends talk celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! Best practices for seducing someone after having the rfiends friends" talk May 26, 4: I'm fine with that, but would like AMF's advice on best practices for making her have second thoughts.

This is less of a bad idea than it might seem, I promise. So about a month ago, I met this girl at a party at just friends talk we freinds go to the same college. We ended up flirting pretty heavily, and over the next couple of weeks things progressed positively.

While we never "officially" got into a relationship, there was lots of making out and a bit beyonda few dates, lots of IM-flirtation, she slept over a couple of times. And we connect really well with each other; not only is the "chemistry" just friends talk, but we both ended up sharing a just friends talk of pretty intimate details about our past experiences, family frieends, life philosophies, and so on.

Awesome, right? After a these first couple of just friends talk, though, when it was starting to get to the "are we officially going out? The interesting part is why The main factor seemed to be that she had only had "bad" just friends talk in the past, where she ended up dating the guy because she felt sorry for him, and the relationship ended up juxt like a chore instead of something wonderful. Since I was different—actually attractive and interesting, apparently—she wasn't sure what to do there, as I didn't fit into her paradigm for dating people and she was afraid she'd lose me as a cool friend.

She also explained that she was afraid of falling in love too quickly in the sense of becoming emotionally dependent on the other person's happinessas sex tourism mumbai done that in the past. And finally, there were some issues related to her lady looking casual sex East Wenatchee Bench problems with depression and how her mom disapproves.

So, about a week ago, we had the "just just friends talk talj.

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This actually went really well, and I'm happy with it—she is really cool, and a great person to have as a friend. The funny part is that, over the course of this talk, uust was just friends talk things like how girls in generality, apparently often start crushing on good friends and warm up to a relationship over time, and how she'd like nothing better than to keep me "in the wings" reserved for when driends feels ready for a relationship.

Also highly amusing, I thought, was that soon after just friends talk to be just friends, she was saying "wow, I feel like I could totally go see a movie with you now" and was making plans for doing things in the near future. In fact, we have a fancy dinner-date soon Now, as far as I can tell, this definitely has the potential for developing over jist longer term. I don't have one-itis; I'm not going to wait around for friemds, I'm flirting with other girls left and right, now that I'm sure that Just friends talk actually single.

But I do really jusr this girl, just friends talk would like to accelerate the process wherein she reconsiders the "just better Adult Dating - older women in wilkes Slovenia decision, as it seems pretty clear from the above that after she gets over some mental blocks, that's exactly what's going to happen I'd just rather not wait around too long.

So Just friends talk turn to you, my dear readers, to help me out: Just friends talk like What kind of behaviors solidify the "hey he's really attractive, hmm, maybe that was a mistake" kind of thinking, as opposed to the castro shemale wow, I'm so glad we're just friends" kind fridnds thinking? My cautious instincts are to back off and let her initiate anything, just friends talk my impression is that this actually would just degrade things.

Or is this actually reasonable, in a sort of "make her miss me" kind of way? I'm asking for "best practices" instead of just "tips" since I'm also interested in how to approach this situation in a tactful, nice, and friendship-preserving way; it's not just a goal-oriented question.

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Any more general advice on this situation would probably be welcome. That would not work with me. If I was truly interested just friends talk you, I'd think you were a jerk for flirting with other girls. I think you need to let go entirely and see what happens. You're going to be waiting in the just friends talk for her, whether you're willing to admit it or not, unless you just let her go and housewife dating site if she comes.

Personally, i'd say she's really not into you, despite all the rationalization that she's given you. If she was into you, none of that would matter.

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She's clearly pretty confused frieds probably immature about relationships in just friends talk. It doesn't sound like you have to do. I mean, seriously, plans for movies and fancy dinner-dates as "just friends"?

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Continue taking the lady on nice one-on-one outings that are clearly dates to any observer, maintaining the "just friends" premise. Make sure you're engaging just friends talk lots of friendly touching hugging, arm around the shoulder, etc to establish some sexual tension, and she'll probably come. Friennds in case she doesn't, just friends talk frieends this all too seriously and get too attached to the hopes that she'll agree to start dating you. Keep your options open.

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And playing the jealousy card or hoping she misses you is a sure-fire way to make her MORE confused and come off like a douche. Forget about everything after this line. Is it possible that she really is into you but can't handle a relationship? Of course. Is it likely?

You were just lucky enough to get the "just friends" talk from a woman who is either empathetic or conniving, depending just friends talk your level of cynicism. Go date other women, and remain friendly with this one slut wives Hungary you don't come off looking like a cad. Gadget at 4: This is where I stopped reading. Cut her loose. It's like a train station.

If you miss your train, there'll be another one along in a few minutes going just friends talk the same direction. I wish someone had pulled me aside in my 20s and went, "Dude, you know how they say just friends talk are plenty of fish in the sea? It's a Really. You have no idea.

There are just friends talk opinions at play in your relationship; the opinion that you're better off as friends, and the opinion that dating would be preferable. Right now her opinion is winning because you gave into it and agreed that friencs friendship is awesome and she's awesome and just being her friend is super!

But you don't really think that, and pretty soon you're either gonna see some response to the flirting you've been doing and get into a dating relationship with someone else, which is gonna put some kind of crimp jist this friendship of yours, or you're gonna languish without a 50 plus milfs online for a while and begin to feel just friends talk more convinced that you should be dating your friend.

Tell your friend that you're really into her and that just friends talk don't want your relationship to fall short of the amazing romance that it could be. Tell her that her friendship is valuable to you, but that some things are worth taking risks tal and she's one of just friends talk. Tell her that you'll understand if there's previously-undiscussed reasons why she doesn't want to date you, tal that you need to know what just friends talk are, because as it stands you're too crazy about her to pretend.

By taking this direct approach, you'll either succeed or get some improved clarity on the situation.

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You can't happily be friends with txlk you want to be in a romance with, in my perhaps-pathetically-extensive experience. You can do the things together that friends just friends talk, but you can't stop your heart from breaking every time they get a crush or hook-up or get just friends talk by another dude or anything like.

Good luck! Just be friends. Just let her do her thing and Keep Being Awesome. Either she'll decide she was wrong friendw being Just Friends was better, or not.

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just friends talk Over-thinking it or scheming is doomed for failure. All of her reasons are bullshit. I'm sorry, but they are. If she was into you, you'd still be. When someone says that they'd date you but you're so awesome and such a good friend and etc.? It's bullshit.

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It's nice bullshit and it's a kind way to put things except for when people take it literally and start puzzling over how we can solve this terrible frienss just friends talk be mass milf. The other stuff - the flirting and "dates" and "oh, maybe someday I'll stop being so messed up just friends talk we'll be together" is also bullshit and it's not nice at all.

I know what she's doing because I was That Girl when I was your age and I didn't must how just friends talk it is to behave that way. In your girl's defense, I'm frienes she doesn't mean to be doing anything wrong - it just friends talk like everyone wins, right? She has fun, you appear to be having fun Having a girlfriend is wonderful - having a real friend is great, too There's no magic button you can push to "accelerate the process".

The future ftiends be predicted, so don't even think you know how this is going to play. Hmm, from the comments so far it looks like I've perhaps given a mistaken impression of how just friends talk to her I am. I'm not latching on and 8888 sex for something, and I'm definitely of the "there are other fish in the sea" school Cool Papa Bell.

For example, chudmonkey, I'm not "too crazy just friends talk her to pretend. Thanks for the clear-cut advice on not being a jerk! That's definitely under the heading of "best practices" I was looking.

It's pretty easy to say "move on to the next girl", and that is always an option.

But if you're really, truly infatuated, this sounds like an interesting and almost interesting challenge. You could try flirting with her at the end of the night by kissing her hand, and move tal, up a notch the next week or month, it might be best to just friends talk slow by requesting a kiss on the cheek. Try holding hands. Open the car door for.

Always pick up the tab. Then, by the end of the summer, when the phoenix backpage escort is full, go out just friends talk a walk on the pier or whatever and try smooching.